How hypnotherapy works.
For years now women have been trying to lose
weight by attempting all sorts of weird and wonderful eating regimes,
from the egg and grapefruit diet, to the cabbage diet to the latest
fashion in dieting such as those that recommend eating only
carbohydrates or proteins. The awful truth is that there is only
one way to really lose weight. That is to eat fewer calories than
you burn. Or to put it another way, burn more calories than you
eat. The problem here is that we all live very sedentary
lifestyles. We have little need to walk anywhere, most of our
journeys are done by car or public transport. Fewer jobs these
days require us to expend much in the way of physical energy.
There is plenty of research that suggests that reducing your calorific
intake to less that 1200 calories a day will actually throw your body
into 'famine' mode, in which it stores any energy that you put into it,
because it 'perceives' itself under threat from famine.
Read more about dieting.
Hypnotherapy is a tool that can help alter a person’s behavior patterns.
For example it can eliminate (or drastically reduce) dependence on
will-power and make following a diet very easy plus make new healthy
eating habits the automatic preferencee.
There are two ways that hypnotherapy can help you.
Suggestion therapy.
This method can be used where the person wants to kick start their diet
into a healthier eating pattern. The client is induced into hypnosis
and is then given suggestions to the effect that they will prefer eating
healthier foods and drinking more water. Of course along with
the suggestions for better eating patterns will also be suggestions that
this is easy to do and that any cravings previously experienced will
simply disappear, and that this will be coupled with a tremendous sense of
pride from putting your goals into action. We can also include
suggestions that you find mild exercise more inviting. Suggestion
therapy usually takes no more than one session and can have a lasting
effect.
Analysis.
This method is used for those people who have a problem more deeply routed
in the psyche. For instance those who suffer with bulimia or
anorexia. Or those people who are aware that they have issues with
binge eating or drinking or find that in times of stress they are drawn
towards certain kinds of food. Analysis typically takes between 6
and 10 sessions and is a permanent and lasting solution.
Problems with food
Problems related to food can be complex and varied. Roughly 75% of
women in the UK today are unhappy with the shape and size of their body.
Of course this is greatly encouraged by the diet industry which makes
billions of pounds every year. I've always found it an interesting
fact that Weight Watchers, one of the first and most prosperous
manufacturers of 'diet foods' is owned by Heinz, one of the largest
manufacturers of foods in the world. The pressures on women (and
more lately now men) to be slim, stay young looking, wear fashionable
clothes is enormous and can result in rather a lot of dissatisfaction with
oneself. This all gets caught up in the business of eating and
before you know it people are suffering with what are described as 'eating
disorders'.
Whilst the majority of people simply indulge in a little too much of this
or that, some become seriously involved in unhelpful and self destructive
behaviour, like the person who find themselves in the grip of bulimia or
anorexia nervosa. Of course there is plenty of advice available on
types of diet and how to diet and it is estimated that by the time she is
20 almost every woman in the UK has been on a diet at least once. So
why is it that anybody who has been a lifetime dieter can confirm, the
more often you diet the fatter you become. Not straight away of
course, we have all experienced some success in dieting from losing just a
few pounds to several stones, yet it all seems to go back on, plus a few
more pounds. Why would that be.
It is because whether you are just cutting down, or dieting, or just
watching what you eat...the truth is you are focussing on food, and nine
times out of ten you are also focussing on what you can't have, rather
than what you can have. You are in fact stoking the fires of desire
and by doing that you are sabotaging your own good intentions.
Emile Coue
A
famous French psychologist and hypnotist, discovered the concept of the
law of reversed effect or effort. The fact is when is comes to the
workings of the human mind imagination out strips will every time.
Take this example, you want to go for an interview for a job you know is
exactly right for you. You prepare yourself as much as you can, but
you begin to have doubts about how you will perform at the interview.
You tell yourself. I will not be nervous....I will not be scared.
What happens? You arrive at the interview and you are so scared you
can barely speak. This is reversed effect working. Why?
Well two reasons really. 1) You are focussing on what could happen.
i.e. using your imagination to visualise all the pitfalls and 2) You
are using the wrong instructions to your mind. You see your mind
does not pick up on negators. So in the instructions you are telling
yourself, I will be nervous...I will be scared. To put this in
another way we could say what you focus on is what you get.
Now
lets apply this to food. I will not each chocolate, becomes I will
eat chocolate. I will not feel guilty about eating, becomes I will
feel guilty about eating. If you wanted to changes these sayings to
a better instruction to your unconscious you could say. I prefer to
eat ............because....(insert good feelings)
So lets get back to
food and dieting. Actually there is no real secret about what to eat
to lose or maintain weight. Food is converted into energy and the
measure of energy that food converts to is called a Calorie, these days
labelled as Kcal on food, which means Kilo Calorie. However it is
the same thing. What this means is that for the energy (calorie) to
be used up (burned) a chemical process takes place. To put it simply
it takes one calorie to heat one cubic centimetre of water to body
temperature. So if you consume less calories than you expend.
You will lose weight. But which foods contain the largest number of
calories. Well see the table below.
1
gram of Fat contains 9 calories
1 gram of alcohol
contains 7 calories
1 gram of protein
contains 4 calories
1 gram of
carbohydrate/sugar contains 4 calories.
So
it follows that if you were to eat mainly non processed carbohydrates and
proteins, you would find losing weight easier. The big question is
how do you know how much fat to eat. The short answer is that as
long as you stay within eating no more than 20 percent of your overall
intake of calories to fat you will be eating enough fat to stay healthy,
but too little to gain weight. In fact you should lose weight.
This is how this works.
Take the overall grams
of food per portion.
ie 100 grams
Take the grams of fat
per portion
ie 4 grams
Multiply the grams of fat by calories
ie 4 grams of fat X 9 calories = 36 total calories
Divide the total calories into the total food weight ie 100 grams of
food per portion divided by 36 calories made up of fat = 27% overall fat
content. This food then would be over the 20% fat content
recommended for weight loss, although it would be a food suitable for
weight maintenance. If you were to do this calculation for every bit
of food that goes into your mouth you will be taking in no more than 20%
of your total food intake per day in fats. Remember this calculation
is only necessary for processed foods. If you stick to eating just
proteins vegetables and fruits you do not need to make these calculations.
Of
course, it is not knowing what to eat that is the problem. It is
wanting to eat those kinds of foods, that causes difficulties.
Many people say they don't like to eat fruit and vegetables, they much
prefer to eat all the processed foods that are on the market, and who can
blame them. In today's economic climate processed foods can often be
cheaper than fresh foods, and they are of course much more convenient,
despite the dangers of hidden fats, salts and sugars. This is where
hypnosis comes in.
With hypnosis we can
re-programme the mind. The first step is to teach the mind to
de-focus the importance of food. After all, there is no shortage of
food in our society at present. By doing this you will find that you
will overcome the first obstacle of the yo yo dieter, thinking about
food all the time. The next step is to teach the mind to
produce behaviours which enhance you self esteem. These are the
behaviours of taking care of you body by eating those foods which give it
the optimum amount of nutrition. There are two ways we do this.
The first is by
suggestion therapy. The
second, for those people with unhelpful eating habits that are more deeply
ingrained is
analysis